Have you ever loved someone so hard you lost yourself in the process?
I have.
And this episode? It’s for every woman who's ever bent over backwards, shrunk herself down, edited her truth, or tiptoed through relationships trying not to be “too much.”
Let’s just say:
I used to be the Pick-Me Girl.
And not the TikTok parody kind – the real, soul-exhausted version.
I was a wife, a mother, a therapist, a brand-builder, a creative muse, a silent sufferer, and the emotional life raft in a relationship that slowly drained the life out of me.
I cooked perfect dinners, lit cozy candles, and built our business while drowning in anxiety, isolation, and weight I couldn’t carry anymore — physically or emotionally.
I disappeared behind the scenes so he could shine in the spotlight of my creativity.
But here’s what they don’t tell you about “ride-or-die” love:
If you're the only one riding…
you’re not in a relationship.
You’re on a f**king donkey. 🫠
💔 The Breakdown Before the Breakthrough
It took betrayal, bankruptcy, and a divorce that left me discarded like trash to finally wake up.
Then came my “healing era”... and a rebound romance with a Moroccan guy who wore the mask of a knight in shining armor.
Let’s just say: that fantasy turned dark fast.
Suddenly, I was being blocked, monitored, and gaslit.
Called “jealous” for setting boundaries.
Labeled “too sensitive” for having feelings.
And once again, I was shrinking. Silencing. Walking on glass.
I realized I was reliving the same cycle:
Shrinking around emotionally immature men.
But this time, something clicked.
I didn’t want to be chosen.
I wanted to choose me.
💫 The Powerhouse Era Begins
Healing didn’t happen all at once.
It came in sweat, silence, solo bike rides, tears, affirmations, mirror work, and messy journaling.
It came in rebuilding Milajki as my own creative universe.
It came in slowly reclaiming my body, my joy, and my voice.
It came when I decided I was no longer here to orbit someone else’s world.
I was the fu*king sun.
My Powerhouse Era is not about perfection.
It’s about alignment.
It’s saying NO without guilt.
Posting that selfie without second-guessing.
Walking away with my crown intact. 👑
And finally sharing my truth — not just as a story of survival, but a map for others.
🎓 Introducing: The Level Up Your Selfie Masterclass
This isn’t just another course.
It’s the glow-up game plan I wish I had when I was sitting at rock bottom wondering who the hell I had become.
🦄 In 5 powerful, soul-hugging steps, you’ll:
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Rewrite your story
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Rebuild your confidence
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Reclaim your creative superpower
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Stop dimming your light
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And start showing TF up — unapologetically.
Each module is under 15 minutes. Because healing doesn’t have to be heavy.
It just has to be honest.
💖 If you’re tired of playing small…
Of being the Pick-Me girl.
Of loving everyone else more than you love yourself.
Of giving so much that you disappear…
It’s time to rewrite your story.
And babe? This time, you’re the main character.
No more auditions. No more crumbs. No more shrinking.
You were never too much.
You were just a unicorn in a world that kept handing you saddles.
🦄✨
💖 EPISODES LIVE EVERY THURSDAY🎙
🔗 Tap HERE to enroll in the Level Up Your Selfie Masterclass
and let’s glow TF up together.
As Always, Extra RainbOH!w Sparkles & Good Vibes OH!nly ✨🦄💦🌈
/ Angelina Mi Lajki
